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Hiya could I please have a private post. I’ll say sorry for the long post alre…

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Hiya could I please have a private post.
I’ll say sorry for the long post already.
So I moved in with my boyfriend in September after been together for 18month. I think I’d been living there for 4 weeks and he kicked me out. Because an ex of mine from about 10 years ago messaged me on FB. And I replied nothing sexual or flirty. He found it and kicked off and kicked me and my 6 year old out. We made up a few days later and I moved back in. It’s never felt like home and we spoke and he told me apparently lads and lasses can’t be friends which is something I disagree with anyways things where okish. Fast forward to Thursday night I got a message off a lad I knew years ago again nothing sexual just checking in asking if my little one was excited for Xmas and that he was having a lot of trouble basically he just wanted to vent. So I allowed him to vent and deleted the messages. And went to sleep. Not knowing he’d messaged another twice while I was asleep anyways I got up to go to the toilet at 2am. My bf checked my phone found the messages and booted off at 2am over it didn’t ask what was said just throw a massive paddy and slept in the spare room. (my little one was sleeping out) 7am he I got up for work to be told pack a bag for the night Christmas is cancelled in this house. told him you can’t do that when I have a child it’s not fair on her. I’m not leaving which he told me I was so I packed a bag and enough clothes for a few days and left. To be told yesterday i can go home. Now I’m refusing to go back as it’s not home and there is no security there. If he’s going to kick us out every time something doesn’t go his way. Which he was like fine. Anyways. I’ve just found out I’m pregnant so he wants us home and I still feel the same. It’s not home. I’ve said we get a new house which is both of ours and start a fresh. He wont. so I’m guessing my question is. Would you back down and go back or just stick it alone?
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