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I Am Your Forgotten Friend

I am your forgotten friend.

We may have known each other for years. I’m in your circle of Friends, the group, the squad, but I’m nobody’s favourite.

I get invited and I always show up and we have a good time, but would anyone miss me if I wasn’t there?

When it comes down to sitting around the table nobody says oh I’ll sit with you. When it comes to getting in cars, I’ll be in the front next to the driver, nobody wants me in the back with them.

They’ve got their favourites, everyone’s got a favourite in their group of friends, except I’m nobody’s favourite.

I’ll have a smile on my face people say they have had a good time, but would it make a difference if I wasn’t there? Nobody knows how it feels, not in my group of friends, I don’t think anyone would ever choose me.

I dread the group chat, I want to put my opinion across, I really do, but it feels like nobody hears me or sees me.  I’d love to send a message and talk about how my day is going or what I’ve been doing, but no one would reply, it seems like they never do, not when it’s me.

Even when it comes to the little things like selfies, I’m the pictures, I’m in the group shots! But the single pictures just you and me, that never happens. There will be a selfie of those two girls or those three girls, but there’s no me and someone. It’s always everyone and I’ll be in the back.

Don’t get me wrong I’m grateful for my friends, I’m grateful that I have friends I just wish they were grateful that they had me.

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