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I know you have alot of people asking but can I please have a ppp?
My partner told me yesterday that we cannot afford to live in this area any more and have to move on Wednesday to another city. It’s all been planned without me knowing.
We currently live with my dad and have a very young baby. So it would mean taking our little one away from my dad who has such a strong bond with the little one and meaning my dad would lose the house as he cannot afford it with out us there. I feel awful and terribly guilty even though I honestly had no idea that any of this was going on! My partner wants to pack up and leave straight away but I really want to stay. His now talking about leaving me and the baby here but I would have to support myself. So I’m basically having to pick between my family and the father of my child. Would I get help with the rent even though I’m living with a parent? I have no money to my name, I really don’t want to separate from my partner but I don’t think I could cause so much pain to my dad. He would lose everything and is even talking about having to change jobs and stop his hobbies because he will be reminded so much of the baby . I feel like this is all my fault and I’m getting the brunt of the blame for something I completely had no idea about. Either way a family is being broken up and someone ends up hurt. I can’t win and what ever I chose someone is going to blame me. I really don’t know what to do, I currently don’t claim anything or earn any money so if he left I don’t know how I would afford nappies and formula until I can go get help.. my father struggles with money as it is and I would still be expected to keep the same payments up for the house which I know I can’t afford.
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