I need advice on this situation that happened an hour ago.. Well my 6 year old …

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I need advice on this situation that happened an hour ago..

Well my 6 year old has behaviour problems as it is.. anyway we was out tonight and didn’t get home till just gone 7pm, he had a snack and went up to bed.. anyway cut a long story short.. he was being a pain, and I said ‘you open you’re door again I’ll send dad up to turn you’re tele off’ I say that mostly every night, a figure or speech I always say as it works. Anyway 30 mins went by and around 8:45pm he come out and asked how long until his tele goes off.. I said 10 minutes, he then said he was hungry after literally just eating, he then went a wee.. then my partner (fiance) who he calls dad said right I’m turning his tele off now.. he went up there and my son’s cushion was over the stair gate without a cover (as it’s just been dried but not put on) and my partner was saying why is this here and why u took the case off, my son kept saying he didn’t and my partner said u did cos I saw it on there, so I shouted up ‘it isn’t on there it’s down here just been washed’ anyway then he turnt my son’s tele off and my son was saying no I got 10 minutes still.. then my partner said no mummy told you if u come out it’s off! And shut his door and left him in the dark, then a second or two later realised so opened his door and put bathroom light off, he was just coming down and my son started crying.. bareing in mind I always say come out and I’ll send dad up, I went upstairs as I ain’t guna leave my own child crying and my partner rolled his eyes and said ‘oh now you’re guna go and turn his tele on’ I said no but I ain’t guna leave him crying up there am I! He got larely and ended up slamming kitchen door saying that kid walks all over me, that he always gets away with stuff etc.. I calmed my son down and explained if he come out dad was guna turn his tele off, he’s now fast asleep. I come downstairs and TRY and talk to my partner and said how would you like it if I stuck you in a room of snakes (which he is scared off, same as my son is off the dark) for a second or two and then let u out, he said oh id scream but I wouldn’t fucking cry, rolled his eyes and laughed cos my son cried.. he said he’s only crying cos his tele went off, then said oh I give up with him I ain’t guna do nothing and all this shit. He also does NOTHING with him, literally nothing. Yes he buys him stuff ON OCCASIONS.. He is there when my son is ill but then goes to work, he comes home from work and sleeps and I wake him once my son is in bed, he doesn’t help him read, write, he tried once but gave up as my son has speech problems and my partner couldn’t handle it as he has NO PATIENCE! he doesn’t hug him, praise him, tell him he loves him, do daddy and son things. Nothing.. but thinks cos he’s there everyday and buys him stuff on birthdays and Christmas that he’s the best dad ever. Now he’s fell asleep on the sofa as per usual leaving me to do everything.. I literally hate him right now. But am I in the wrong or him?! We are due to get married in 8 months time but one minute we are amazing, we seem to be more happier when it’s just us as when my son is around my partner is just off, or moody or asleep! I love him more than ever, been together over 2 years and when we get along which is all the time besides when we argue over my son we are like two teenagers, flirty etc. I just dunno what to do.. I just feel like my son’s happiness means more but my son says he doesn’t want to not have a dad.. but the way my partner is how the hell can I ever have a baby with him etc.. advice please?!thank you 🙁 xx
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