I need some help or advice! And before anyone says anything I love my OH to bits…

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I need some help or advice! And before anyone says anything I love my OH to bits! But I’m seriously not attracted to him! We’ve been together over 3 year, have a lovely home and a 1yo little boy! He was chunky when we got together ( I like a meaty man), I’m no saint or super model. I’m a size 14 trying to lose more baby weight.. he’s a big man! I’m feeling bad for losing weight cause it’s making him more self conscious.. He’s in 5xl clothing and even them are a little tight, I feel embarrassed going places cause people take the Micky out of him, he has the what I call ‘the waddle’ (I do go mad, and stick up for him) but it’s getting to the point we can’t sleep in the same bed because there is no room, hes broke my new sofa it’s only 8 month old! his sweating makes me feel sick. He has to have the fan on ALL night to sleep. I’ve told him he’s a heart attack waiting to happen and a slice of pizza away from being diabetic! He understands, says all the right things and says he’ll hire a treadmill and change his eating, but never follows through! I can’t imagine myself with anyone else, but it’s getting to the point of no return. He can’t walk up he stairs without being tired, he can’t play with our son without being out of breathe after 2 minutes all he does is sit and eat! And all he eats is pizza and chips and I mean a 12inch and a big portion of chips! I need some help to make him see what he’s doing to himself and help him change! Please I love him with all my heart but I’m slowly resenting him 😭😭 I’m desperate 💔
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