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Hi can you post this on behalf of a close friend of mine please as I can’t help her..
Hi I am 38 years old (39 In August) I have no Children but always wanted some. I was with my first long term partner from September 2000 to December 2014 (he was killed in a car accident) we never had any children as he had a low sperm count.
However I got together with a lovely young man about a year ago April 2016. He and his ex girl friend who he was with for ten years never had any children They were together for about ten years. Any one I have always wanted two or three children but some of my work friends says I am to old now. My new partner does not want children he said he has never wanted them. he got two nephews who he loves and adores and we take them out with us but he says he likes to give them back… I am writting this because I love my new partner but will love to me a mum too… Shall I find another partner.. I really want to be a mum as I cry my self to sleep as I look.at other families and wish that was me…..Help help help love me xxx
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Your not to old.
You need to have a serious conversation with your partner and explain how you feel. Hopefully he may come to feel the same, but if he really doesn’t then you have to decide. Don’t stay in a relationship that you don’t get what you want, because you may come to resent him. But also don’t leave if he is everything you want and need. Life is short and we only get one chance, get everything you want out if it while you can. Good luck in whatever you choose.
I’m pregnant and 43, had my daughter at 38. For me if I wanted children and my partner did not I couldn’t stay. I just think there will be regrets down the line. Talk to your partner and explain how much you want it x
You’re not too old, you’ve still got a good few years before people would start raising eyebrows. It’s quite common for women to have babies in their 40s.
Personally if you feel that strongly that you cry about it, then I’d definitely look to meet someone that wants children, if you partner 100% doesn’t. You’re not too old either, I was 34, and been with my partner 2 months before we said we’d try and fell pregnant that month. Also my friend was almost 41 when she had her baby (1st for both of them)
also don’t just rush and settle with the next person to have a baby because you feel you don’t have time to wait
I wouldn’t wait for another partner. I would use a sperm donor or icui and what will be will be x
Deffo meet someone else your not to old to have children you should be with someone who wants a family like you xxx
i would love to have a few children of my own so we should hook up some day maybe if you want someone who wants the same thing you want