Looking for advice: I’m Inlove with my Brother-in-law. We’re always been good fr…

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Looking for advice: I’m Inlove with my Brother-in-law. We’re always been good friends and have a soft spot for each other however, a month ago he gave me a hug for my birthday and that kind of led to more hugs and touching. We both knew that this is not right definitely. We talked in person and said goodbye after 1 1/2 months of intense texting. We didn’t get naked or anything major but we both know that if we continue doing it something might happen. It’s so painful saying goodbye because we really do love each other however we did it. But, after 1 week of saying goodbye we’re back to each other again and this time he tried to kiss my lips and I said no and he did respect my decision. Since Friday last week, I didn’t answer his calls and text messages again. Yesterday he didn’t text me anymore. I love my husband so much and have no plan of leaving him and I think he’s the same. It’s just that we have this special feelings for each other in which I couldn’t understand! Please help me to figure out!!! Please give me some strategies into how to continue avoiding him. I really can’t avoid him in person (family parties, ect.) At the moment, I really missed him! Which I know it’s not fair for my husband. Please help me! I need more strategies on how to handle this situation. I want us to be friends and be back onto that great relationship without the physical side. But the thing is, when we’re near to each other it seems like there is this big magnet that tries to pull us back together again. Please help!!!! Thank you

oh and I forgot to add that he’s been married for more that 20 years with two children
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