Looking for advice please. So my boyfriend who iv been with for a while has just…
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Looking for advice please. So my boyfriend who iv been with for a while has just recently told me he point blank wants no more kids. He has 1 whose his and brought his ex’s child up and still has her. I also have 1. But I don’t get a say in it. He’s 7 years older me. But said a baby would break us apart (not sure how) the other thing is. He has refused now or never to take my daughter on as his. Cos he said he’s done it before and won’t do it again. Like I said I get no say in any of it. Just feel like I’m been taking for a mug. I do trust him regarding everything and maybe this next thing is a man thing. But EVERY single place he goes whether it’s in the house or not he takes his phone. We can’t ever sit down and talk about anything cos he says am been stupid or wanting to cause a argument. Which am not and we haven’t had a argument since we’ve been together. Baring in mind also every weekend I have kids 2 kids plus my own 3 year old 5 year old & 8 year old while he’s working. Please tell me am not over thinking all this. Please note he’s also said it isn’t love?! Like he’s not in love with me but likes me and wants to be with me?! X
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He took a child on granted the relationship would work, it didn’t. He’s still having a child that isn’t HIS!
Why should he take yours on as his!?
I don’t understand why you’re with him, when you say ‘a while’ how long is a while? 5 months? 2 years? 3 weeks? 🤷🏽♀️
You need to tell him, even if it’s over text (he can’t say he didn’t get it if he ALWAYS has his phone..) how you feel.
My advice get rid especially if he said he doesn’t love you and no ur not overthinking at all U have feelings too it’s not all about your boyfriend and what he wants he gotta take ur feelings into consideration too x
I’d already be packing his shit he sounds so muggy! Why on earth would you put up with that