Me and my partner are both in our early 20’s. We both work full time and we live…
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Me and my partner are both in our early 20’s. We both work full time and we live in a lovely 2 bedroom house we have rented for 4 years now while we save for a house to buy. We have been together 5 years and I have recently found out I am pregnant, it wasn’t planned as I was on the pill but we are both over the moon. My partner had really been incredible since finding out (not that he wasn’t anyway but extra incredible.) prior to falling pregnant we were never ones to drink or do any hard drugs but (please don’t judge) enjoyed smoking cannabis in the evenings. Since finding out I was pregnant, I of course haven’t touched it at all and it hasn’t bothered me in the slightest and now my life will be changing I will not be smoking again. This is how I have always felt about it and just enjoyed the freedom responsibility while I could. My partner has cut down immensely and only smokes away from the house. We are both from very different backgrounds and where as my parent have never even touched a cigarette. His family have always enjoyed and good drink and the occasional bit of cannabis again not recklessly but they are a lot more lenient to smoking. My partner of course would never smoke near the baby or do anything to effect the baby in anyway. Despite this he doesn’t understand why I think he should quit completely. I think it just look crap and wouldn’t want people to see him smoking knowing there is a baby at home. He would obvious never be around the baby while high but that’s still not good enough for me. He doesn’t go out and get drunk or anything else just enjoys smoking but I think he should just quit completely. Again he has been absolutely fantastic with everything else and will be an incredible dad. I just wondered how I can get him to quit and see what other people’s opinions are on the situation. Thank you
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