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me and my partner have been together nearly 2 years. We come from very different backgrounds , his family don’t accept me for not being one of them but my family have welcomed him. We fell pregnant quite quickly out baby has seen his family once for 10 mins , she’s nearly one years old. I put a stop to it , I don’t want my child being around people who don’t take 2 minutes a day to ask how she is or want to make the effort to be in her life – all because we are different. I still live with my parents , my partner can’t leave his mum he’s the man of the house and quite frankly he doesn’t want to either. He doesn’t help with the baby , hasn’t ever gotten up during the night or made the effort to be hands on, doesn’t sleep over to get up with baby in the morning. He works 6 days from 7 , 9 hour shifts from afternoon till late at night which I understand is tiring. On his 1 day off he has to do things for himself his mother his work and then fits us in for a few hours, 1 afternoon we go for lunch and maybe 1-2 times he’ll pop along before work for 20/30 mins or less. I understand how hard life is for him but he’s not understanding to me. I’m a mother and I work myself , if I question anything he tells me I’m selfish and ungrateful he tries to spend time with us and can’t do anything more. I’m exhausted , when I ask for help he tells me I can allow our child to go home with him. Not only does he share a house with the family who don’t accept me or our child , he’s never spent enough time with the baby doing things/getting to know one another. When I say put effort in and do this to allow him time to take our child , he tells me I’m using our child as a pawn which I’m not. Our baby has only me and is very clingy to me and only me of course , as baby is used to me 24.7! He doesn’t understand this but Hopefully one of you ladies can see from a mothers point of view I’m trying to do best. How can I put it to him I want more than he’s giving it’s unfair. Thanks.
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