My boyfriend of 4/5 years (we are both 19) never shows me love, attention or aff…
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My boyfriend of 4/5 years (we are both 19) never shows me love, attention or affection. I love him so much and always have, but our relationship isn’t exciting or making me happy. He puts everything before me, such as cars/motorbike, gym, football, work, as much sports as he can. We both work which usually means (in reality) we should miss each other more? But it’s as if I’m the only one doing the “missing” I’m currently laying in bed crying. For 19 this isn’t normal. We have sex the most at a push twice a month, usually just once. He used to have a very high sex drive, but with worth stress finding jobs etc etc it went down over the years. I just wish he would cuddle and kiss me at least but he hardly does unless I ask for it which isn’t a good feeling knowing it’s happening only because I asked. Im not meaning to sound big headed but I constantly have boys throwing themselves at me and he even sees this when we are out, but I want him! My friends all tell me how I need to leave him as he’s not showing me attention and I’m going to end up seeking it else where bla bla bla, they’re right, but I love this guy so much I don’t want to wake up without his face next to me😓 please help, any advice will be appreciated. Also, ive tried speaking to him about it but he just tells me this is life etc😓
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I would talk to him again and if he is not undertanstanding i would leave him as this is not normal at your age.you both should be all over eachother at this age.if you are not getting enough attention,care and passion better leave him rather than cheating on him as i feel that’s what you will end up doing then you will blame it on him however you will be the one on the wrong.good luck
If u have already tryed talking to him and he’s not wanting to. Y not say about going out together doing something together if he’s not interested he can’t blame u for what u want to do next xx