Please can I ask for some private advice? Send it anonymously? So my ex and I h…

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Please can I ask for some private advice? Send it anonymously?
So my ex and I have been separated four years and we have a four and a half year old son. He’s mostly always seen him once a week. But this is the second bad week of school he’s had, hitting, pushing, throwing things, spitting food out, not listening to the teachers and I’ve found out from his step mother that his dad was laughing at him sticking two fingers up, swearing and encouraging hitting which is what he has been doing at school. The teacher has been pulling me to one side and I’ve been telling him off and stopping him from having nice things, going anywhere, saying he’s gonna be in the naughty list etc.. but it’s just come to light that his behaviour is a response to the influence of his father over the weekend. This week I found out over the weekend just gone that his father was shouting and swearing abuse at his step mother and my son was copying him saying the same things to her as his father was. I’m afraid of what kind of man he’s going to grow into and how isolated he’s becoming at school. The teacher is making him sit by himself on the carpet and at dinner time and it’s not fair 😞 there is no talking to his dad, all I get is nastiness when I try to talk to him hence why I speak to my sons stepmother instead to find these things out. I’ve been to citizens advice about concerns before who then put me in touch with a health visitor who then contacted social services who stirred the pot and said things that weren’t true and made everything 100% worse. So I don’t know what to do! The school are aware of all of this now and organising a meeting for us but he will still do and say whatever he wants around my son. I don’t want my son to not have a dad. But please someone give me some advice on what to do? The way my sons going at school he’s not gonna have any friends 😞
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