Please can I get a private post please, in desperate need of some advice! This…
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Please can I get a private post please, in desperate need of some advice!
This is a long one but please no bashing I don’t know if I could deal with it right now! Ok so I have been seeing a guy for a year now but I have known him for nearly 10 years and have always been in love with him. At the beginning of our relationship it was quite rough as his ex was always threatening him with killing herself and doing stuff to his car so we used to argue a lot because he always seemed to put her first but we seemed to get past all of that. I found out he lied about some stuff a couple of months ago and ended it but he was still trying to get back with me and coming to my house everyday and we were still sleeping together. Around a month ago we got back together and I have never been so happy until around a week ago when he turned up at my house and told me that his ex was pregnant. When we were going through a rough patch he went to her house and slept with her, he has told her that he will be there for his baby but can’t be there for her in that way and that he’s met someone else. My problem is I don’t know if I can stay with him, this is breaking my heart and I don’t know if I can do so it. I love him with all my heart and he has told me we can get through anything but I don’t know if I believe it. I also need to mention that I have a little boy if my own who he has accepted as his own and my little boy loves him to pieces. I don’t know what I’m really asking here, suppose I just need to know what other people would do in this situation.
Thanks xx
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Personally I would walk away. U fell out due to him always putting her 1st. 1st argument you have he goes and sleeps with her so your gut instinct was right. He may not want to be with her but must still love her so walk away with your head held high and don’t be 2nd best to amyone. Guaranteed he goes back to her. Sorry hun u deserve to be put 1st and not feel like this
You need to walk away hun and forget about him, as you said he put his ex first instead of his new relationship, you had a rough patch but you still slept together meaning that he knew there was a chance you’d get back together. But instead he wanted his cake and are it too by sleeping with his ex.
You know deep down that even though he says he can’t be for her in that way that a part of him will be, he put her first before and even though his child will always come first now you know she will come first too not you.
It will hurt you more to stay and watch him play happy families with his ex who and I’m sorry to say this he may end up going back to. He knew he could get back with you but still slept with her and that breaks all trust
This made paranoid reading this hope it’s not my man 😂😂🙄 he’s clearly still with her and playing use off against each other