Please can i have a private post. I need advice…. I have been with my partner…
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Please can i have a private post.
I need advice…. I have been with my partner 2 and a half years and have 2 children from a previous relationship and now a 3 month old with current partner. Basically long story short… My 2 oldest don’t see their fathers side of the family because they simple do not bother with them.. My new ML has always been nice to my 2 oldest but since I’ve have my youngest there is a definite difference in how they are treated. E.g. oldest 2 will be given a 5er youngest will be given a 10er. There are pics of youngest around her house (that we all regularly visit) but none of eldest 2. I just feel for my older bubbas they just want to be apart of their family. Also partner refers to the baby as his son and the eldest 2 as my children although he likes to take the title of step dad. I just want to know if anyone thinks I’m being to overprotective of my oldest children or if I’m right to be a bit miffed???
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It’s obviously not okay that there’s such a big difference in treatment and I can understand that you don’t want to put up with it anymore. I think you definitely need to talk to your partner about how he refers to the kids because such a level of preferential treatment could lead to resentment between your two oldest and your youngest in the long run and that’s not fair to any of them.
Also take a chat with your in-laws that their obvious favoritism is really hurting the other two and try to convince them to be more fair-minded; remind them that these kids really love them and it’s painful to feel that they are loved less in return.
Nope I personaly think they should treat all your childern the same I wouldnt allow her give the youngest a fiver. more id say it to her in a nice way they are all your childern and I would def talk to your partner to and tell him how your feeling just say you feel the eldest two ahave been pushed out a lil
If they have no other dad and family it’s not fair to treat them differently:-(
Should treat all kids the same not different