Please can i have a private post I’ve been dating a guy now for almost 7 months…

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Please can i have a private post

I’ve been dating a guy now for almost 7 months. We both have good jobs, our own houses and kids. He is a brilliant daddy always putting his kids first and this is one of the reasons i fell for him. He is so affectionate when we are together although we only getva chance to see each other maybe once per wk due to work and kids.
My problem is i have been having a really hard time lately, been intimidated out of my home, I’m staying with family until i move into my new place next week. He had planned to come visit on sat but last min cancelled because his son wanted to stay over night with him, he was at his sisters house for a bbq that day. This is fine, kids come first. Yesterday when i spoke to him i told him i really felt i needed someone to speak to, he was at his friends having few drinks while planning a stag and invited me now. Obviously i wouldn’t go not only because it was all guys but because i haven’t been coping very well with everything that has been going on this past few weeks and just needed a chat. I know it was fathers day so i told him it was fine and went for a drive to settle myself, i didnt want to ruin his day. Today i asked would he mind me coming tonight. His reply was yea babe if you want, I’m shattered but come on down!
We’ve never argued, hes so chilled out which i like and think is good for me but it annoyed me so much i told him i felt like we were on different pages in terms of our relationship. Like i want someone thats there for me through the hard times and vise versa. I just want to feel wanted rather than like I’m pushing a relationship onto him that hes not ready for. He said he is ready. Ive been single 3 years and hes been single just short of a year. He says all the right things but its how i feel thats the problem. That saying if you cant deal with me at my worst you dont deserve me at my best keeps springing to mind.
Am i being stupid? There is nothing else i can fault him on. I just want to feel like he is there for me when i need him.
I am on medication for vad pmt and have my period atm so in the back of my head i wonder am i overreacting.

Any advice would be really appreciated!
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