Please Can I hi a private post! Any advice please My eldest boy who is turnin…

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Please Can I hi a private post!

Any advice please 😭😫

My eldest boy who is turning 3 this week always suffers constantly with chest infections and coughs in the winter. The house is warm, not damp etc and we have been having numerous appointments at hospital for it. His dad left us when he was 1 and had only ever had him one day a week, not turned up when he’s been rushed to hospital or Doctors etc. I worked full time whilst juggling a 1yesr old and made sure he never suffered. Basically his dad went off with some younger girl with no responsibilities or kids and basically the rest of thie week he lives a life of a person with no children. He has to reserve one day off for her and the other day of for his son, she’s not accepting that he has a kid at times especially when they live together at her mums. At one point he was having a normal
Married life with me on the day he had our son as he would stay at mine with him and then have his life with her each week, to which I sent her the evidence of the messages etc and they are still
Together. Anyways his mum has recently started invited me and her grandson to family parties and Sunday roasts etc because she would never see our grandson otherwise because my ex won’t take him round there since he’s moved into the gfs mums. They turned up at the party and I was there so she walked out and refused to talk to me when she eventually came in for food and was rude to me (baring in mind she broke up our family) I was offering her chances to come to my sons swimming lessons etc tryinf to be the bigger person, she was giving him daggers and they left very quickly meanin our boy missed out as it was his day to have him. I go out shopping and to bingo with his mum and family. After this my ex suddenly reduced his child maintenance to what the csa online says. Fine, but last night sent me a messages threatening me that he will stop maintenance all together until I sort out our son being ill as every week he collects him he’s either full of
Cold or cough etc. He knows he’s prone to it, and that I do everything in my power constantly taking him
Doctors but when he goes nursery etc o can’t help if he continuously seems to have a cough and cold it’s winter. He reckons he will stop the maintenance to get someone to investigate my house! Baring in mind he’s always late for our son, never rings durn the week to see how he is, puts him second
To the girlfriend, he’s the one sending him to nursery in a thin long sleeve top when it’s freezing cold and they have kicked off to me about it. Last year he was really ill and my ex didn’t even bother to take him to out of hours Doctors and left it to me when he came home the following night! I always send him in appropriate clothing. Where would I stand legally? How long does the csa take to set up? His mum thinks it’s harassment and has advised legal advice. What would you guys do?
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