Pp please – sorry for long post in advance, I wanted to ask for some guidance r…

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Pp please – sorry for long post in advance,
I wanted to ask for some guidance really as I don’t know what to do for the best, and I don’t really have anyone mutual to give me an honest opinion, I’ve been with my current partner from a very young age (14) we’ve been together 8 years and we have a one year old together. During our 8 years together there’s been a lot of ups and down and unfaithfulness on both sides, both families are aware and I’m not proud of any if this, I truly put it down to us being both young and stupid, we’ve both moved on from this and our relationship is fantastic he is literally amazing his like my best friend and an amazing father, I wouldn’t change him for the world! It’s our families that’s the problem, since we had our 1 year old there was a freak accident which is now resolved, but his mums the main problem, she always try’s to turn everyone on her side of the family against me, saying it’s me always causing drama, I go out my way to try and make her feel included, like extreme out the way she is always more priority over anyone in my family. Even my partner asks why I do the things I do with her, I think I’m just hoping for approval and for the horrible back stabbing to stop, I always hear through people she tells them to be wary of me and that I can’t be trusted, which really hurts, I don’t honestly think anyone actually listens to her, but even she tells me everyone acts around me just to see my one year old, she’s so nasty, I just don’t know what to do about her, my partners amazing and he sees her for exactly who she is, I feel like she’s making my life miserable, but if I do anything about it, I’m causing drama and making it harder for everyone in that side of the family to have anything to do with me and my daughter. I probably just need to grow a back bone and ignore her but it’s so hard, I’m always thinking what has she said about me now. My partner would easily cut her out of our life’s tomorrow if I let him, but I don’t know if I can, i keep trying with her but nothing’s ever good enough my past is always
Used against me and my fault only. Even if I was to sit down and tell her how I feel she’s one of those people who would smile to your face and then just slag you off again. Uses my weaknesses against me sort of thing, I’m pretty certain it is jealously but even still how do I stop it? How can I move on..
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