Ppp Am i being unreasonable or should i stick to my guns if it kicks off? My st…
[ad_1]
Ppp
Am i being unreasonable or should i stick to my guns if it kicks off?
My stepdaughter had a puppy for her bday and her mums asked before if the puppy can come to ours when my step daugter comes……We’ve said no sorry cause our 2 year old dont like our own dog never mind anyone elses and our doggie is 16 years old and wouldnt cope with a puppy and hes also just lost his bro a few year ago and its aged him a little bless him so there the reasons weve said no and left it at that.
My partner has come home tonight and said his daughter is coming with the puppy this weekend as her mum is going away for the weekend and it cant be left on its own. (Even tho she has a older daughter at home) So my partner said ill have to ask my mum to have them both but ive got a feeling she will say no…..
I wont be very happy if he overides our “no it cant come” to “its coming cause her mums gone away”…surly they should of sorted this before assuming the puppys ok to come…….
I can just see it causing majour problems if his mum cant have them both. Its something every time step daughters here we always argue and fall out and its always my fault… were on splitting up terms as it is…..no ear bashing please i just want to know if im being unreasonable. tia x
[ad_2]
Source
Your right to make your decision to suit your family it’s your house. I think she has a cheek expecting to send the puppy over with her daughter you haven’t bought the puppy. Stick to your guns or the ex will think she can interfere and decide what happens in your house, i wouldn’t be happy with that at all if it was me. Your not a kennels for her holidays xx
you made a decision together that it was a no for the fact of your other child doesnt like the dog u already have aswell as other circumstances. he shouldnt go against u at the end of the day the lg’s mum took on the responsibility of the puppy knowing she would be going away thats her problem not yours. so no ur not being unreasonable lv stick to what you say xx
Don’t let the puppy come, itll probably end up Being a regular thing if you do, and once you’ve started letting it, it’ll be hard to suddenly say no. Plus it’ll probably ruin your house by chewing things and weeing on the carpets. You didn’t sign up for that responsibility x