Ppp I’m straight I’ve always been straight. I’ve done things with girls in the p…
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Ppp I’m straight I’ve always been straight. I’ve done things with girls in the past but 3 somes and like silly drunken kisses ect nothing major, I’ve found my self talking to this girl who is lesbian, we have been talking daily for about a month, and she says she likes me and I do like her but I’m finding all of it weired like I am straight I dunno what to do I have kids, have just come out a relationship with a BOY she wants to meet up she keeps asking to take me out and stuff she’s openly said she is serious about this and I’ve been honest and said I’m not sure but I don’t know weather to go through with it? I don’t wanna hurt her feelings if its not for me and if it is my family would hate me what should I do
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The fact you are trying to convince yourself that you are ‘straight’ speaks volumes. I dont think you should label yourself as anything other than yourself. Man or woman.. If you like them, go for it. As in any relationship, it will work or it wont.You cannot hold back just because of how you have labelled yourself. Sod your familys thoughts. If they love you, they will support you.
Give the girl a chance… You will regret it if you dont and wonder what if. Good luck chick x
Go for it and if it doesnt work out or your not comfortable with it then end it. You wont know until you try and you cant help who you like weather its a man or a woman. I wouldnt even worry about my family hating me because if they cant be happy for you and see that your happy then they dont deserve to be in your life. Do what makes you happy 🙂 good luck 🙂
You’re definitely not straight if you have done stuff with both men and women and say you like her it’s called bisexual so don’t label or try to convince yourself that you’re straight.
Sounds like you’re just a little bit confused, just explain this to her and just say you’re a little confused about your sexuality right now but go out with her and see how you feel then 🙂 just because you’ve been with a bit and have kids doesn’t mean you’re 100% straight xx
Why put a label on yourself. Yes you are not used to this side of things. But I think there is something there that you can build on. Keep an open mind xx what you choose to do behind closed door’s. Is no one else’s business xx
Why don’t you just go for a drink or whatever and see how things go, if you don’t like in that way after just sexplain you just want o be friends, if you do like her then your family should accept that, if they don’t give them some time to come round to the idea x
Love isn’t gender specific. Start a friendship first and then see where it leads x but just a question why do u feel the need to justify your sexuality? Do u feel that if u do enter into a relationship with her u will be judged? Love is a hard thing to find whatever form u find it in cherish it x
Sounds like questioning yourself here and more wanting to go for it, so why not be happy don’t try convince yourself that you are straight
You dnt need a label, I view myself as nothing, I am with a guy who I love more than anything but I also find women attractive but dnt view myself as bi or anything.
I’m not for labels really…. U obviously like her as a person who cares if she is a man or a women. If u have feelings for a person then go for it xxx
Go out. See what happens. Just make it clear that your not sure but are willing to see what happens, that way if you don’t find it’s you then she will understand.
Don’t worry what your family will say. If they love YOU it won’t matter xxx
Be selfish, go on a date with her! You never know till you give it a chance. If you go out and decide after its not what you want then you may still have a friendship? If you go out and enjoy yourself and want to see her again then you’ll be glad you went. Go out enjoy yourself!!
Wont hurt going out just as friends to start with.then see how it goes.if its not for you then its not for you.but there will always be that what if if you dont just go for it xx good luck
Sorry but your not straight lol. Just go for it,u say u like her so what’s the problem x
how can you not no what to say if you’re straight and being asked out by a girl?
Ah go on, nobody hates ham sambos
You can’t help your feelings so go for it xx
You can’t help who you like or who you fall for be it man or woman x