I’m sure you’ve heard this before and I’m sure it’s a topic of different opinions but I’m seriously digging myself into the ground.
My partner searches women on Instagram, models.. pornstars.. that sorta stuff. We had an argument because I have major insecurities and it made me feel quite low, we compromised and he deleted an album he had saved on his phone of naked women he masturbated over. But recently every time he’s gone on his phone I’ve noticed their names pop up on his recent and suggested.
Now this all seems petty and not a big deal, I guess it’s more that he’s lying to me that hurts (as well as the women being polar opposite to me physically) but how do you mentally build yourself up enough to not let it upset You?
I sit and play so many things over in my head every single day, and it’s exhausting me. I just want to be confident, happy, content and not phased by his actions.
Helpful advice please, I’ve had my fair share of criticism.