PPP. What’s people’s views on this. Separated parents do you think If say kids…
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PPP.
What’s people’s views on this.
Separated parents do you think If say kids dad has the kids for one week at his should I have to hand over al their child tax credits for that week while he has them?? He’s on higher rate esa. For a single person and I’m on income support after paying all th debts back out of my income support I’m left with £50 a fortnight these debts are from the years I was with him he doesn’t have to worry about all them cos it’s on me cos of me still living here he’s moved counties. So it’s all left with me. I take them up to him wen he has them 3 hour train or 2hour car ride then back again. I give him bits of money to get them food n sweets n so they can go places while they’re at his. But that’s not good enough now he wants all of my kids money for the week if he’s having them. It’s been arranged il drive up and drop kids off Boxing Day n he has them for the week he’s now rang and said he can’t have them unless I hand over their money for the week cos he can’t afford it. Iv said il get food in at his but no him get the money he’s said no to that he needs their money. Iv said no and he’s cancelled now said hel have them wen he can afford it. Iv said il not help out with dropping them off or money again now and he can do it all his self. What’s everyone’s views xx
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No 😂😂 dad should be paying for them and anything they need if he wants them the whole week , although personally I wouldn’t take maintenance (if he pays any) that week since he has them but that’s just me x
I think it is fair that you provide for them as in with their clothes for a week and if he can not afford the food, providing the food for a week. In regards to the travelling, I think it is overly reasonable and generous of you to do the travelling, as personally I feel this should be shared. If money is genuinely tight for him then if you provide their clothes and food for the week, since you have the tax credits etc then this is reasonable. If he is still refusing then I would suggest for him to travel to see the children at yours as you have all they need with u. Is it really a financial issue or is it somebody just being bitter and resentful that they don’t have extra money in regards to the ‘tax credits’!? Good luck and I hope it sorts out so that the children see both of their parents over the christmas period x
Personally if your dropping off and picking up for him and offering to provide food etc id not give him anything your being more than fair you have to buy everything they need xx
How often dose he have them for a week at a time?
Tbh if my ex had mine for a whole week I would give them their child benefit and child tax credit