PPP x I am being to strict with my 15 year old son. He’s having sex with his 15…
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I am being to strict with my 15 year old son. He’s having sex with his 15 year old girlfriend in his bedroom I have asked him not to have sex in my house as I have a baby and a 3 year old. Plus there both under age I have told him if I find out there still doing then his girlfriend isn’t allowed upstairs or I will take his bedroom door off 🤔 any advice will be great
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Thank you all she is on the pill but up till I found out the other week that he wasn’t using condoms I went mad at him and told him off I understand there going to do it anyway but till he’s 16 and pays rent then I will stop him under my roof x
Can u please update he’s using condoms but I just found a open one in his bedroom and my 3 year old was playing with the bag he had them in. And he can go to his girlfriends house as her mum knows that they have sex thanks
Think you got it covered. Although I’d be worried about where they’re gonna be doing it instead. Because if they want to, they will. And nothing will stop them x
Ill be honest… id hate for my kids to be doing it under my roof but at 15 i got pregnant with my eldest, my mum told me i couldnt so i did so they will honestly do it elsewhere and id much rather it be at home than outside
You can not stop them they will just do it else where, would you rather them do it outside? Aslong as they are using protection I don’t see a problem as there’s nothing you can do about it anyway x
Your son and his gf are been disrespectful! I wouldn’t allow her around anymore! If they want to have sex, they can go to her house unless she doesn’t want her parents knowing x
I would do exactly the same. Besides which at any point her parents can report it to the police and get him in a whole heap of trouble if she’s under age xx
Bedroom door off, no girls allowed in the house, Ive been with my boyfriend for 3 years and he still isn’t allowed to sleep around my house
I’d be pretty real and ask him does he realise he can be put on sex offenders register and can be prosecuted as the girl.is under age I feel for you must be hard as at least hea in the house and not the streets but not really what they should be doing so young
I’d rather them be in my home where I know that if something goes wrong I’m on hand.
It’s there privacy and there both hormonal.. be open and honest. If his gfs mum hasn’t an issue with it then really all you need to do is ask them not to do it when your home and dispose of condoms properly.
Perhaps explain to them that it’s actually illegal for them to have sex . And though you know what it’s like to be young you have to respect the law . If the want to act like adults ask them to wait until they are both sixteen and if they can shoe the maturity to do that. Then you will provide them the condoms when the time comes .
You will have to stop the girlfriend coming round to your house wonder if his girlfriends parents would allow it I know I wouldn’t
Can someone explain how this is illegal to me, sorry from Canada and can’t wrap my head around why so many say this is illegal.
If they are using condoms and she is on the pill then that’s the most important thing, I can’t imagine it’s nice to hear that your child is having sex but they will do it anyway! X
I was never allowed a boy in the house. Like, ever. The first time my partner stayed over at my Mums, we had our own house, been together a year and I was pregnant 😂😂
Be careful even if they are both under age I believe he can still get put on sex offender register should anyone find out and report it
I was having sex at that age, rather it be in the safety of my home where I can educate than elsewhere behind my back, which is what would happen.
id feel exactly the same,,my older 3 boys are all older but my oldest was about 17 before asking to have a girl stay, i hated it lol,,
I’m so confused by these comments. Yes they are underage but they are both the same age. Both consenting. I get the fact you don’t want them doing it in your house. But they are safer doing it there then in the street/park. Maybe talk about the when the doors shut knock rule….. I’ve been with my husband since I was 15 we both were underage at that time. I’m an only child and my mum wasn’t happy with the fact I was having sex but she knew I would do it any way she brought us condoms and just asked us to be considerate x
Sadly they won’t just stop, they’ll find somewhere I’d sit him down and have a tAlk and give him condoms. It’s sad our children grow up but if your open with them then they’re open with you, my daughter got a free at 15 I knew she’d be sleeping with him, and I went and got her on the pill and condoms I’d rather that then a teenage pregnancy she’s now going on 19 and still no baby in sight lol x
I’d rather know where he was and what he’s doing. He might begin hiding it from you and this may encourage him to hide other things too. Teaching him to be considerate, careful and honest is what I would find more important x
Id have words with her mum, it’s your house your rules. If you don’t like what they are doing and don’t want them having sex under your roof I’d tell him he needs to respect your rules.
My daughter did the same i said the same 2 and infact i did ban them from going upstairs it is illegal full stop and its our responsibility even thou we can’t stop them if they leave the house asa i found put my daughter had the implant in 2 shes now 16/17 thank god cos now i dont need 2 do anything xx
I would tell her mum… if she gets pregnant she won’t be happy knowing you knew they were having sex.. she can then deal with her and you can deal with him.. I wouldn’t allow them in his room now
Your being WAY to strict and it will backfire on you. Simply because if they can’t have it in HIS own home he will go elsewhere, would you like your son to be having sex at the age of 15 in a field , in a bush ! I know I certainly wouldn’t. I’d prefer my son to do it in my own home where I know he is safe. Just say to him please do not do it when I’m in or any other family members , bin your condoms , have a bit of respect that way but other than that you most definitely shouldn’t stop it ! He will rebel other wise and you really don’t want that. You seem like a brilliant mam but you can’t be too strict with them cause it will be shot back in your face just place boundaries x