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No digs please, just need some advice and sorry for long post!
My oh (of 6 year) and his mum have really pissed me off and upset me this weekend as they both do every other weekend. I arranged in the week for my oh to have our lb (aged 1) so i could take our lg (aged 4) to the opticians. All was ok he was fine with that even said the night before (Friday) “dont forget youve got lado tomorrow” his reply “yeah, fine, ok”. Waking up the next morning (Saturday) he then told me no i cant have lado now as im taking his eldest daughter (aged 10) (my step daughter) to a play centre with her mate and then also lied to our lg about where he was going, and then today his mum took my step daughter and her friend only out for dinner again not telling our kids. (Just want to stress me and my step daughter have an amazing relationship before anyone says ote about that). So all weekend our kids have not seen their sister and been lied to too (as sd stopped at oh mums all weekend cause sd brought her mate with her) So lb been dumped last min by daddy and daddys not spend no quality time at all with our children all weekend.
I might just add the weekends sd is not here the oh works. We planned (last week) to go out for the day today but thats all changed now too! 😞 So our lg was asking “when are we going out?” Something happens evey other week when my sd is here (or oh mums) and oh lets it happen…and after 4 year (since our lg was born) you’d think it would get easier but it doesnt, the list is endless of what happens dont even get me started where it all really began on our lg 1st birthday!
Should i be pissed off or am i over reacting? Even oh best mate says its favouritism! (I did think that was a bit harsh tbh) This situation is splitting us up because if i say anything to oh about my sd, his mum and this situation I get shouted/moaned at and oh always turns it around on me….this weekend i/our kids have done nothing wrong but yet im in the dog house for saying something about it and im getting a little pissed off about it now and its going to start effecting our kids and thats the final nail in the coffin….gggrrrr xx
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