Private post please ? X I am due to move out within the next 2 months with my pa…
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Private post please ? X
I am due to move out within the next 2 months with my partner in to our own place he is a massive gamer which i understand its his hobbies. I am turning 21 and he is 25 years of age and yet he is trying to tell me he will be decorating my home for my what will be 2 children with his gaming poster. I dont know about anyone else but i want a house i can be proud of and invite people in what i class as an adults house obviously decorate my kids rooms in whatever they want. He is threatening to not move out and help towards the deposit because i refuse to cover my house and make it look like a 5 year old owns it i dont care if he plays his games or watches his programs but i refuse to have it plastered all over the house i am not decorating the house in ncis and the mentalist merchandise so i dont understand why he is acting a child…. do you think i am over reacting? We are currently living with his mum and his room is covered in pokemon and i hate it xxx
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Can you reply to post please he has 18 posters and wants them everywhere and i mean everywhere i suggested he holds on to them until we get a bigger place and then make him self a game room for himself that he can decorate however he wants he wants to draw all over my walls with his pokemon and other games. Im basically paying for 90% of everything in the flat or house as I’ll be on the tenancy he has not allowed me to hang or do things i have asked to do in the room he has to have it his way or not at all xx
Find a compromise. I highly doubt he means to put posters up in every room.. the thing is you’re in a relationship and you may not like all that stuff but he does! It’s his home to so you’re gonna have to find some middle ground here.
Could he maybe put them up in the bedroom? Not ideal I know but it’s a compromise. My husband was a massive gamer but luckily no posters etc
My partner has a corner in the dining area. He has his tv and xbox there, also a massive gamer and he can do what he wants with his corner, I get the rest of the house to choose lol
I think he actually doesn’t want to move out and is using this knowing your going to say no
I dont think he’s ready to be a big boy yet 😂🙈 maybe leave him where he is
Tell him to bloody grow a pair or leave him with his mother!!