Private post please I’ve just found out I’m pregnant with my second child I’m so…
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I’ve just found out I’m pregnant with my second child I’m so happy bit don’t want to tell anyone yet as it’s so early. I’m so worried that because it was just me and my son until he was one (when my now partner came into our lives) and we’ve got such a close bond that I won’t be able to love this baby as much. Am I just bing stupid or has anyone else been through this?
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I felt when pregnant with my second that I wouldn’t love him, I thought that even if I did that I would end up favouring my eldest but when he was born it honestly felt like my heart doubled in size and held both of my sons safely inside. I feel silly when thinking back on all the worrying I did about it. I love my children equally, and more than I ever thought I could. You will be absolutely fine Hun, try not to worry. xxx
I can totally relate my second son and i had such a close bond as hes dad wasnt in the picture i met my partner and fell pregnant and was thinking the exact same… but honestly i was so wrong i had our daughter and was love straight away me and my son still have a very special bond but i dont love any of my other children any diffrent xx
I felt like this and both my girls are with the same dad don’t worrie it will pass and when the baby’s born u will love him her just as much as ur first I now have a nearly 4 year old and a 1 year old and I love them the same and we all have a amazing bond it will come so please don’t worrie and stress yourself good luck x
I had this feeling now I feel so bad ha I adore both my girls the same but yes when pregnant I was worried because I thought I couldn’t love anyone like I did my first but you just do ha xxx the same xxx
i spent my whole 9months pregnant crying and feeling guilty because i didnt think i could love another like i did my first.
but he came and filled a place in my heart i never knew was missing. yould be fine 🙂
I can’t imagine loving my second as much as my first and I only have 2 weeks to go it sounds bleeding awful saying it but I’ve never loved anyone like this in my life so can’t imagine it 🙊xx
You’re not being stupid it’s natural to feel like that coz when your new baby is born you will feel the love straight away and before you know it these thoughts will go away don’t feel that you’re in the wrong feeling like this x
Im pregnant with my second child not my first boys dad my son has special needs so im extremely close to him he to me im also in the same boat x
This is so normal! And trust me when your baby is born your heart grows big enough for two xx