Private post please? Last week we found out we are having a girl at the 20 week …
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Private post please?
Last week we found out we are having a girl at the 20 week scan, everything’s fine, no problems BUT to say I’m devastated is an understatement! We already have a girl so we was hoping for a boy. Please no bashing as I feel completely guilty about it, I start crying because how guilty I feel! I’ve tried looking at girl clothes, pink everything but I just can’t get excited and I hate feeling like this! Please tell me it’s just a phase and other people went through this? I’m scared I won’t have a bond with this baby like I have with my daughter. Obviously I’m grateful that everything is fine with the baby because of the meds’ I have to take daily can seriously harm the baby greatly so I’m relieved everything is fine with her. I just have this guilty feeling.
I’m debating whether to have a 4D scan to double check the sex of the baby because the women who done my 16 week scan said “she thinks it’s a girl but don’t buy pink stuff just yet” and the women who done my 20 week scan said she’s “95% sure it’s a girl” so I have a tiny bit of hope they’re wrong but honestly I think it’s a girl and I’m devastated! Please tell me it gets better and I will love this one like I do my other daughter. If you have nothing nice to say please don’t comment, I feel bad enough as it is 😞😞😞😞
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