Really need some advice ladies.. I’ve been seeing this guy for over 3 months now…
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Really need some advice ladies.. I’ve been seeing this guy for over 3 months now, I’ve known him for over 10 years childhood friend. However I’ve just found out I’m pregnant ( wasn’t planned) Im so torn on what to do.. I really like him however we both know it’s to soon. I don’t want to make the wrong decision though.. anyone been trough anything similar any advice? Ive got a daughter who will be 3 next year from a previous relationship. Just don’t know what to do x
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I was with my partner only 3 months when I fell pregnant…was a shock to both of us, because I was told I would never have any..so we took it as a lovely gift for us both, but took us a while to decide..we didn’t tell anyone else until we were sure what we wanted to do. Being together 3 months or 30 years isn’t a sign that a relationship will stay together or fail..Just sit down together and talk through the pros and cons..at the end of the day it’s what’s right for both of you. Don’t be swayed by anyone else, just you two decide between you xx
Knowing him for years is totally different from being with him, it’s been 3 months no doubt blissful, but sooner or later stuff gonna get tough, paying bills, providing, disagreements. Do you want to keep the baby? Dose he? Because even if you do keep the baby and you split up, you clearly got along fine for the last 10 years so it is defiantly possible to maintain a good relationship if your not together. Plenty of children have split up parents, as long as you get along and love your child together you’ll be fine. On the other hand you may live happily ever after! Obviously if having a another baby isn’t for you then I hope everything goes ok xx
2 years ago I ended up in a relationship with a guy I’d known ten years, I already had a 3 year old from previous relationship. 2 months in I found out I was pregnant. We were both happy and kept baby and had full support of both families, but unfortunately she was stillborn at 37+1. About 3 months after having her I fell pregnant again (not planned) now have a beautiful son who’s 6 months. Unfortunately we’re no longer together, I don’t think it’s anything to do with the children more to do with things we’ve gone through in the 2 years. Don’t do anything unless your sure. X
Only you can decide that but you have to live with it either way. Do what you want and hope he sticks by you x if you decide to continue with pregnancy and he’s not interested you will be fine but doubt after ten years of friendship that would happen x
A child is a gift… Enjoy every moment. Because one day, u may be told ur not allowed anymore (medically) like me 😢
Yeah and were not together any more but for other reasons depends how serious your relationship is xx