(Sorry for the long post) Hi can I have a ppp? I really need some relationship …

(Sorry for the long post)
Hi can I have a ppp?
I really need some relationship advice.
My partner and I have been together for nearly 11 years, we’ve been through our fair share of ups and downs and always come out stronger than ever. When I got pregnant we were both so happy as it’s all we’d wanted. During my pregnancy he was working a lot, and not finishing till 2am and that’s when we started to drift apart. Now my son’s 1 and were at rock bottom. During my pregnancy I felt so alone I got prenatal depression and it’s now postnatal depression. There’s no communication anymore, there’s basically no love. We fell out on my birthday and we still haven’t sorted it. My son is at his grans for the weekend to give us time. I know I feel like it’s time to move on. I feel we’ve just outgrew each other. But as soon as I say it he breaks down. I don’t know what to do. I love him so much but I just feel there’s no intimacy anymore. He keeps everything to himself. I just don’t know anymore. Tonight we are home alone and sleeping in separate beds. Is this relationship salvageable? I know I have to break it off but I don’t want to for the sake of my son but I know it’s probably for the best. Most of our arguments are over his family and it really interferes with us. Part of me wants to try and resolve it but I just don’t know how to. Any advice welcome. Thanks x


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