Sorry I know it’s late, can I have a ppp. I need to stay anonymous as friends an…
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Sorry I know it’s late, can I have a ppp. I need to stay anonymous as friends and family can’t see this yet. I’m 23 with a 2 year old, im now in relationship with another man and I am currently pregnant. Things are not going very well with us, I literally can’t stand him most of the time. I don’t think we are going to last much longer and I’m worried about what people are going to think of me. Single mother with 2 kids with different dads. I will note I was in a long relationship with both of them before I fell pregnant but people are not going to stop to listen to that. I’m worried I’m going to be labelled! Any others out there in a similar situation? Tia xx
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My mum was 18 when she had me, followed by my sister a year and a bit later. Then my brother came along. His dad isn’t the same as mine or my sister’s and he forever used to tell my mum people would judge her if she left him and that no one else would want her with so much “baggage”. Jokes on him, she’s with someone much nicer now and in this day and age, lots of people have a child (or two) from a previous relationship, anyway! Time is precious, don’t waste it being with someone you don’t love out of fear of being judged! You could be using that time to focus on your kids or find someone else. Xxx
Thousands in same situation babe, I don’t understand why people have such an issue, are you meant to stay with someone you’re unhappy with just to have the same dad to all your kids? Nope. Don’t worry xX
I’ve been there hunni. I’ve done that. My eldest (7) I was with his dad for 8years. We split but talk amicably. My youngest (2 this month) hasn’t seen his dad since he was 4months old. There was never any label no snyde comments when my youngest dad just upped and left. If anything I think I had more support. I was 23 when my youngest was born x
Iv got 3 kids all different dads was with first for 3 years second a year on and off and third a year im on my own with my kids also 20 weeks pregnant but dad same as my youngest xx
It doesn’t matter what anybody else thinks if your not happy then don’t stay in a unhappy relationship you will end up resenting baby
When I was 18 I had 2 kids with different dad’s
Was with first 4 n half yrs
N 2nd was a 1 night thing