Sorry this might be a long post. So just after Christmas my fiance decided to br…
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Sorry this might be a long post. So just after Christmas my fiance decided to break up with me as he didn’t feel he loved me anymore. After he talked with his sister she made him change his mind and we stayed together. We were 5 weeks away from getting married and I was 5 months pregnant at the time. We tried making it work for a week or so when we had an argument and he told me he thought he was falling for a girl from work. I knew he was good friends with her. We had even been out for dinner with her and her bloke. Anyhow I said I could get over that if he promised to cut her off. No Fbook, snapchat etc. It lasted about 1 day before they were on the phone to each other. A few days later he ended up admitting he had had sex with her on 2/3 occasions. I was devastated but considering the baby and being 3 weeks from our wedding I tried to get over it. He couldn’t and ended up leaving me. He moved in with family but it wasn’t working there so got a flat with, you guessed it, the lass from work. His excuse was neither of them could afford to live alone but they weren’t in a relationship. Anyhow I have always been civil and not kicked up a stink and before I was pregnant I would have brought down the fires off hell on them both. Now I have asked him for help as I’m 2 weeks from giving birth and I’m terrified of being alone in the house. I have no family as they have all passed away and I have alot of friends but can’t really ask them if they can stay for a week or two over my due date. I asked him and he said yes but now he’s saying it’s starting arguments at home. I’m not sure what answers I’m looking for. More i want to tell someone, anyone how I’m feeling because I feel so alone. I always thought I was stronger than this and would never let a man walk over me like I feel he’s doing. I always stick up for him as I don’t want people to hate him but I just can’t understand why I feel this. He broke my heart and I can’t get over him. Again sorry for the long post but just needed to write this down somewhere I guess.
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He doesn’t care about your heart so don’t care about his. Your baby is priority and if he cared for the baby he would help you no matter how much earache he got, besides how dare she give him earache when she is a home wrecker! I even think that he won’t be present in your child’s life from what you are saying or he will say he will be but she will give him grief. Stay clear and source help from elsewhere.
I think you’re well shot of him and I wouldn’t go to him for anything. He’s clearly a weak pathetic man, who thinks with his willy.
Be strong and talk to your friends, I’m sure they’ll all help you xx
‘Causing arguments at home’
Tell his slut on the side you was about to marry him – now your having his baby!!!
Ffs it’s got nothing to do with this bitch – after everything he’s to you the least he can do is show some support ffs!
Id seek help from anywhere else im sure if they are true friends they will take turns to stay a night to support you, anything is better than this scumbag. You will be amazing just trust in your ability to be a great mum. Here if you need to chat