What Being A Dom Really Means

I am classed as a Dom, and i have my submissive whom i call my “little” I know this may not be everyone’s kink and 50 shades of grey is not a true representation of the relationship.

Let me tell you what being a Dom is:

Dominance is being there for her.

Dominance is working through her meltdowns.

Dominance is accepting her, especially when she won’t accept herself.

Dominance is being asked for the millionth time if you love her.

Dominance is tucking her in at night.

Dominance is telling her no.

Dominance is quieting her demons.

Dominance is being her bastion of strength.

Dominance is shrugging off her anger and frustration when you do things for her own good.

Dominance is encouraging her.

Dominance is comforting her in the middle of the night when she’s had a nightmare.

Dominance is guiding her.

Dominance is building her.

Dominance is love.

Don’t knock it until you have tried it