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Can I have a pp please? 😊
Ok I’ll try and keep this short and sweet but I’m desperate to see what some of you ladies would do in my situation 🤔
ok so me and my partner have been together for 8 years and have 2 beautiful kids. He’s an amazing dad, we have a brilliant relationship, kids want for nothing. However, 5 years ago when I was pregnant with my first, I found lots of messages on his facebook to lots of different girls (exs aswel). Some messages were just asking how they were, what they were up to, others he had called a few beautiful/sexy. But He had tried to delete them tho which made it all a bit more suspicious. Anyway I confronted him, went ape shit, split up with him! but he begged me back, promised he had changed, deleted facebook and said that he wouldn’t do it again. That was 5 years ago and everything has been fine since, after lots of hard work I finally began to trust him again. Then last week I borrowed his old phone and nosey me went back through his old emails. The emails were From 4 years ago (just after I had my first) but I found messages on there from dating websites. proper crude messages tho, asking for naked photos and for sex. Made me feel sick. Obviously I’ve gone ape shit again and chucked him out. Because he done it after he promised he would never do anything like it again. He’s swore to me he’s changed since then Tho and I know he hasn’t done anything wrong in the past 4 years but I just can’t get over those vile messages 😷 and the fact he did it after he promised he wouldn’t 😩
Do I forgive and forget again because we do have such a lovely life together? or do i finish it and put my kids through that heartbreak 😩 me and the kids love him to bits so it would kill all of us. But how do forgive those sort of messages?
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