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Can I have a pp please.
So I have 2 girls 5&9yo. They go to their dads every other weekend. We have a court order in place because he kept keeping the children, the breakup wasn’t mutual. After the order things had been ok but the last couple of months the 9yo hasn’t wanted to go as she says her dad is horrible to her and favours her younger sister. So we sat down together and spoke about how things could be different so the 9yo would want to go. This worked for about a month max and it went back to dad treats me differently and he’s horrible and doesn’t love me…then they was over there at the weekend and the 9yo txt saying she wants to come home as he has shouted at her and slapped her loads…so I spoke to her and dad and sorted that out….she come home tonight as said dad said I have to go to his house on Friday or he will call the police and they will drag me out and if the don’t he will come in and drag me out and then burst out crying! Then I said no il speak to your dad and with that she got very scared and cried no no dad will go mad he told me don’t you dare go home and tell your mum that or I will be mad! So I spoke to dad and he denied it all! Then the 5 yo said we have levels of punishment no 1&2 are tell off No 3 is shout 4 is bedroom 5 is a hard snack to their head and skipped to no 15 that was tie them to the front of the van and smash it into a wall killing them…( he’s already chased the 9yo in his car round a car park) oh and somewhere in the middle was set them alite…I’m stuck now as to what to do because social services just say don’t sent them or he’s their dad has equal responsibility for them or take him back to court but I haven’t got the money to go back to court…what else can I do? Obviously they are not going but he will kick my door down or threaten his own life…any other avenues I can take to get this sorted and to get some emotional support for my 9yo….
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