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Can I have a ppp, I’ve been in a relationship with my bf for 3 years now! Got t…

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Can I have a ppp, I’ve been in a relationship with my bf for 3 years now! Got two kids, have done absolutely everything I can to make him happy but he just isn’t, I feel like he completely hates me , it seems to be getting worse and worse as the days go on! He stays in my flat (all under my name) all furniture etc is mines! He gives me constant abuse about how he hates his life and somehow this is my fault, he doesn’t work, has been sanctioned so has no money whatsoever. I pay for absolutely everything which was fine for a while but I’ve just started to stop as I don’t see why I should need to with the way he treats me! He’s been totally spoiled growing up so expects this from me, his family have went right off me as they think it’s my fault the way he is, they have only listened to his side of things (mostly lies). I have asked him to move out countless amount of times and he just refuses! The names he calls me are really unforgivable and I honestly don’t think I can take it that much longer, this is sometimes done in front of my kids so my oldest won’t even speak to him! I really don’t know what else to do, I don’t want to give up my flat which I have spent years doing up myself to the way I like it, I don’t want to uplift the kids as one is settled in school with friends but I can’t be round him anymore! I don’t actually have anyone whatsoever that I trust to speak to as I made the mistake once in telling a friend and she told him. Should I pack his stuff and get him removed from my home or try and get some money together and leave with my kids as I can only see things getting worse and I know I need to get them away from this! I’m not allowed to really go anywhere so can’t go anywhere for advice xx
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