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Can I have a private post please am I overreacting here or am I right in wanting to start the new year tommorow alone. I havd a 7 year old a 4 year old 1 year old and had my 4th on the 27th of this month. I went in to be induced and got started of at 10am and had her at 6.40pm. I didn’t have any pain relief up until 9cm and was extremely sick after my partner decided he didn’t want to stay with us and be uncomfortable and get no sleep on a hospital chair so went home at 10 and came back 11 in the morning. Stayed with us till 7 went home and came back half 10 day after. We came home he told me he’d sort our 1 year old out but help me to. Our daughter woke up for a bottle at 11.30 he woke up got her out the moss’s basket while I went and got her bottle came back and he rolled over and went sleep while I fed her she’s struggling with wind so it took me past 1 to get her settled and I also gave her another bottle before I put her down. Our 1 year old has never slept through fully and woke up a couple of times had a winge I herd him go shhh twice and that was it shd woke at 1 am and I got up and made her a bottle to settle her back of while I made our youngest her second. Then the baby woke us up at 5.45 and I got up he lay in bed I changed her got her bottle fed her and he was fast asleep before I even winded her it took a while again. I went back of around 8 and herd him get up with our older ones and 1 year old at quarter to 9 I went back if and our little one woke me up at quarter to 10. I got up he said he’d made the girls all cornflakes and washed the bowls I sorted the baba out and he told me he wanted a full breakfast I said well put some food in he said no we might as well do our own. I ended up cooking it all anyway. After he has a go saying I should havd washed all the pots because he washed the kids breakfast bowla this morning and he isn’t cleaning up after me and I’m bein lazy today and he hasn’t asked me to do anything else but I should keep on top of things like that. When I said bloody hel iv done other bits and only jus got home from giving birth he came out with give over u gave birth on Wednesday not yesterday. He went of for a bath because his mum came at around half, 1 came down and told me he’s goin his grans for his tea went out at 3.20 and cam back at half 5 he started bein arsey so went upstairs I got my youngest and 1 year old up got them both ready for bed and bottles. He came in for bed at 9 went straight to sleep I washed the pots and tidy up and came up our youngest woke uo for a bottle at 11 tonight I got up went down to make it come up and he was in bed ignoring her crying awake I said oh she’s pood u could have changed her he went I new it would take a day before u start because u can’t cope bein a mum because ur a fukin lazy bitch and think i dont deserve a bit of sleep. I laughed and said really u honestly feel sorry for Urself for not having slept he said yeah and u once again can’t cope and give it a week and ul be crying because u can’t even be a mum fof 3 days I told him tommorow he’d leaving he said why wait and went and got in our eldest bed. Iv jus been sat feeding the baby and she’d woke up our 1 year old shed been crying for me stood up in her cot and he could blatantly hear her and new she jus wanted a cuddle or a bottle he’s not come in to sort her or anything iv been trying to talk to her while feeding my youngest and shh her of and it wasn’t working atal she’s been stood in her cot crying at me iv jus got little one of gone down made my one year old a bottle n come back up and looked in my other kids room he’s lay there awake and said oh what’s up with u can’t u cope no Iv jus walked out again my little one woke up and my one year old stood up and started crying and he’s jus ignored her noin I’m trying to get them both back of. Believe me if he want here I’d get on with it and iv jus managed to get the both asleep but the fact he’s Stil in the house and let his one year old be upset this late to spite me I think is disgusting and I’m fumin am I wrong whag would u other mums do
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