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i really need advice ladies! long post ahead so i apologise in advance. basically my son’s dad txt me at 10am yesterday saying he just finished work and he was gonna go home have a shower then make his way down to have him, i replied with ok. well anyway i made plans with my friend because i haven’t seen her in so long assuming my ex was going to his nans (he always takes oliver to his nans saturday and sunday because his admitted to me he cant cope with him on his own) then my friend suggested dropping oliver off at exes so i phoned him and told him to see if it was ok then he told me that he weren’t sure because he was going clubbing on the night and i said whats that gotta do with having oliver knowing he drops him off at 5 and he said well i need to get ready and stuff but i still want him for a bit so bring him down. took him down completely confused to why he would need to get dressed at 4-5 to go to clubbing much later. anyway we got there and got oliver in the pram got him to sleep while he was in the pram then my ex decides to tell me he would be dropping him off to at 2.30 it was already 12.30 at this point to which i replied with (trying to keep my cool and be civil) well whats the point in you having him I’d rather take him with me and he said no i still want him for a hour or so. to this point i was fuming inside. then because i was confused i asked why was he dropping him off at 2.30 when clubs don’t open till 9 and he said well i need to get ready then meet the guys around 6 and i said so in other words your going to the pub first and he said yes and i said why didn’t you just say that in the first place. he didn’t respond. then i was telling my friend all about it in the car as i told her to wait in the car for me and she couldn’t believe it and she said what you gonna do and i said because he knew i had every intention of going shopping for oliver (i told him wednesday night) i feel like he did it on purpose also it seems drinking is more important than having his son so if thats the case he isn’t having him tomorrow no way (today) so i txt him after he dropped him off because we were 5 minutes late and couldn’t be bothered to wait for us he knocked on my door and asked my mom to have him! which i was upset about because she was sleeping as she worked the night before and its not her responsibility. so i txt him saying have fun, see you next Saturday to which he replied with why not tomorrow and i replied with me and oliver have plans. what should i do? i feel like his calling the shots and im not having that because he only sees him an hour Wednesday and 5 hours on a saturday and 5 on a sunday. i need advice ladies please im trying to be friendly around him but his making it so damn hard. i hate to think what his told his nan and mom about not bringing oliver today no doubt making me out to be the monster.
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