Please post private, hi ladies please could I have some opinions on what you’d …
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Please post private, hi ladies please could I have some opinions on what you’d do in my situation, basically me and my partner are going away in a week for a week to perissa Santorini for his birthday it’s my treat as his present, we’ve had this holiday booked for a while and my Nan was supposed to be minding my little girl (4) whilst we were away unfortunately we found out my Nan has Lung cancer and has to start radiothearpy on monday so of course she won’t be watching my little one I feel terrible for going away when my nan has always been like a mum to me but she said I better go otherwise she would be offended if I didn’t, anyway the problem I’m now having is my idiot of a dad came to mine on Saturday calling me all sorts he doesn’t even get on with my Nan he’s an evil Bastard and on a couple of occasions has said “is she dead yet” on about my Nan which I won’t tolerate, anyway he was calling me all these name saying I’m selfish I’m plaming my child off, is I’d rather spend money on my partner than my daughter *he’s just taken us to Tenerife 4 weeks ago for our birthdays* my daughter has been on two abroad holidays in less than a year so I know ahes not going without, my mum is now having my daughter whilst we’re away she suffers from sczofrinia it’s controlled through medication but my dad keeps throwing in my face and slagging me off to everyone he can saying I’m irresponsible for leaving her with my mum, see when we were children my mums illness wasn’t controlled with medication so she was pretty ill I know she wouldn’t harm my daughter ever but I’m scared of leaving her there now I’m scared incase inside my mum becomes Ill whilst we’re away or something my little brother is 5 and lives there so she’ll have someone to play with too, but my dad’s making me feel so guilty about the whole situation saying what I’d my Nan dies when I’m away what if something happens to my daughter, I know he’s just being a wanker because he doesn’t like to see my happy he never has I’ve cut all contact with him and told him to leave when he came on Saturday, what would you do in my situation would you go? Perissa isn’t a place for young children there’s nothing for then them to do it’s more of a romantic island so for us to bring my daughter would be a no go unfortunately it’s all ready been discussed sorry it’s so long thank you xx
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Please can you reply to Jasmine, yes this is a rare occasion, we’ve never been abroad without my daughter we did spend 1 night in Edinburgh together last year but again did take my daughter to the canary islands 3 months prior to that for 2 weeks, no my dad was originally going to have her the weekend we go but obviously with everything he’s said I’m not happy about her going as he’ll say all this to my daughter, and he’ll smoke in the house my daughter has asthma but he’ll smoke when she’s there my nieces arent and he won’t smoke when they’re there that’s why I only allow her to stay when my nieces are there he has no respect for me or my wishes or happiness he pretends he cares or is advising me when really he’s just being a wet blanket and making me unhappy he gets so much pleasure from making people unhappy xx
Your dad is a d**k. Your mum looks after a 5 year old obviously she’s stable enough to care for your child! Have fun and forget your dad’s negative opinions and as for your nanna she loves you and she knows you love her she just wants you to be happy and enjoy yourself.
Ignore ur dad and have fun ur mum wouldn’t be allowed to have a 5 year old if she was unstable so she’s more then capable of caring for ur child if no one else has an issue
If this is a very rare occasion then you have nothing to apologise for as you didn’t know the situation when you booked it. I’m assuming dad didn’t offer to take care of her so he cant really be that concerned.