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Can I have a private post please. Just wanting some advice to see if I am doing the right thing or if people don’t agree with me. My husband and I broke up last week. I mentioned to him I was unhappy with a few things and wanted to talk but he just got really funny with me and said he didn’t want to talk it’s the way he is so if I dont like it then he will go. He then went to work and never came home. We have a 2 year old daughter. He has made no effort to see her since last week or even ask how she is. She video called him last night and he just kept yawning and watching TV while she tried to talk. I messaged him today saying he could see her after work until she went to bed then me and him need to sit down and talk so that there are no ongoing arguments between us and we can get on for our daughters sake so she doesnt have to see me upset all the time and can regularly see her dad. He said he already had plans. I asked what plans could be any more important than seeing his daughter who he hasnt seen and sorting things for her future. He agreed and said he would check in to his hotel and call back about coming over. He hung up and never heard from him and he didnt turn up despite knowing I had already told her he was coming and she was sat waiting for him. Suddenly I hear from him at 8.40pm asking if he can come tomorrow. I have said no because he cant let her down like that and just see her when it suits him so I want an official arrangement in place now to prevent her getting let down and hurt. To me he has just shown that she means nothing to him. Also he has changed the password on the itunes account meaning we cant use the ipad properly knowing that she loves to play the apps on there. He wont give me the password just to spite me even if it is upsetting his daughter at the same time. Would you let him see her as and when he decides it suits him or am I fair saying no tomorrow and making him wait until he can show he cares about her?
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