[ad_1]
Can I have private post please x Long story I’ll try keep it short , me and my partner been together 5-6years got 2yr old with him and his daughter who’s 14 step-daughter to me . Anyways I don’t work I’m stay home mum he works full time. Recently moved into a nice house everything’s sweet then I notice we don’t have money for maybe food etc and stuff we get CB, CTC also HB his wage I don’t have any money except £20 every week which is my little ones I don’t spend anything just for food shop so I can’t understand where the money’s gone I ask him he just lies and I believe him. I had to borrow Money of family! To make it worst the following couple months it’s keeps happening I decided to look at his bank statements he had been withdrawing the money I’m talking like £140 quid here £30 £20 every couple of days so I ask him about it turns out he’s got a gambling addiction ( won’t admit it!) I told him enough is enough he barred him self from every bookie shop everything was fine then two months after it starts again money disappears again ( I don’t mind if he spent a little it’s his money he earns it!) he smokes weed too so that’s money too his step-daughter gives me attitude all the time he don’t even look after her works all the time and I’m left in the house all day everyday I also seen messages of this girl he been messaging its more her and he said there just friends I question her about it she said she was drunk ( I want to be with you but too far away! – bitch!) I was angry confronted him straight away we argued but he just seemed to sweep it under the carpet and surely enough I soon forgot about it he told me he wouldn’t message her again! But few months down the line I check his phone ( I check his phone because he’s made me this way lying and gambling !) behold a message of the same woman messages have been deleted so only seen her reply to saying nothing lol . So I don’t know what to do really heads in a mess!! I also found out he’s been gambling again’! I was suppose to have the card he wasn’t but he took it without me realising and he’s took alot of money again!! We are debt with a few things but we should be fine as we get enough money ? I just don’t know what to do ? Pack my bags and leave or let him explain !
[ad_2]
Source