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Could I have a ppp again. Sorry! So I’m 11+ weeks pregnant. The dad, is a lot older than me by 14 years, and has a 3 year old son he see 3 nights a week. Since he found out I was pregnant he called everything off and has hardly spoken to me. The other night I went to his house to talk! And basically he wants access to the child for a few hours a week but that’s all but has said he will not provide financially for it. Financially we both struggle, but he still has enough money for weed and fags each week. Each to their own, not critical against people who smoke or smoke pot. But I personally I don’t and won’t. However how can I trust someone who ultimately is putting drugs and fags first over his child. I know it’s not all about the money. But I don’t really want my child in an environment where there is drugs. He’s told me if I get csa involved he won’t have anything to do for his child! So I’m stuck between financially being support or the child seeing it’s father! On top of all of this he is now insisting that I give the child his last name because then his son and his unborn child will be the same. However we’re not married, he hasn’t been there for me through the whole of the pregnancy so far, even when I was sent to EPU with a threatened miscarriage he wasn’t interested. And I just don’t see why I can’t give if my last name. Am I in the wrong or a bad person for not giving little one his last name?
Any advice would be great. Just a first time worried mummy!
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