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Hey can I have a private post please?
-trigger warning for some-
I’ve had my son now, but when I was pregnant midwives randomly stopped coming round. When I rang to find out why they told me they was told I had a miscarriage so didn’t continue the visits. So I tried to look deeper into this and a midwife at the health centre said “a male rang to say you had a miscarriage so we discontinued visits”. I told her I was still pregnant and wanted to know who phoned up. They said it wasn’t an official or someone to do with my pregnancy they said it was a “male member or the public”. They had 0 answers for me, I don’t know any men, I don’t socialise, I don’t speak to my family, my partner wouldn’t do such a weird thing so I’m just left confused. I gave birth to my son 8 weeks ago tomorrow. Is this normal? It’s still playing on my mind, even if I did have a miscarriage they just stopped contacting me full stop which is a bit shitty because I’d obviously should be offered support.
No men would have done that so why have I been numerously told a man rang to say I had a miscarriage, but didn’t take his name even?
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