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Hiya can I have a private post please?
I’ve just found out I’m pregnant to my partner I’m 19 nearly 20 and my partner will have just turned 24 when baby is born going by my last period as worked it out to be about 5 weeks pregnant so would be due end of December start of January time. I have two boys to my ex partner ages 1 and 2 and half they will be nearly 2 and 3 and a bit when baby is born my partner is saying that he isn’t ready for a baby and a responsibility like this he scared of being a dad and is scared of turning out like his own dad I’ve tried to reassure him and tell him everything will be fine he’s such a good role model for my own two kids and gets on great with them and my kids adore the ground he walks upon but he’s saying he wants me to have an abortion and if I don’t he will feel like I’m trapping him I’ve giving him two options of walking away or staying and being a dad but he’s adamant this isn’t what he wants he has always said he wasn’t ready for kids right now and I was taking the pill and just happened to get caught so it came as a shock and said that he can’t walk away because he couldn’t do that to his own child so he feels forced into this I’m torn on what to do I love this man with all my heart he’s everything I have ever wanted in life but I also don’t agree with abortions and he knows this and has said that keeping it he will end up resenting me but by having an abortion I know I will need to end my relationship and I will be left with the guilt keeping this baby yeah I may loose my relationship but at least then he might have a change of heart once baby is here and to me that’s a chance that is very much possible I don’t really know what I’m asking for but I guess i just want advice and to hear what other people would do in my situation?
Also my youngest wee boy was born by emergency section due to being breech has anyone fell pregnant a year later and went onto have a successful vbac? I was told by staff at the hospital after my son was born that there is no reason why I couldn’t go on to have any more natural births x
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