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Sorry for the long post. So here goes.
So I was a couple months pregnant when my baby’s dad told me he didn’t love me and didn’t want to be with me.
I then proceeded on with the pregnancy by myself (I had a lot of issues during pregnancy, at the hospital 3/4 times a week, all of which he was aware of but never came to appointments)
I came to the arrangement that he would be in the room when I gave birth as I didn’t want him to miss the birth of his first child. From the minute she was born he tried to take over and rule everything & was very aggressive and manipulative all of which my health visitor was informed of and took records off.
Fast forward to now, we’ve had an arrangement that he has her every Saturday ( he works Monday to Friday)
He then had an argument with his mum so stopped her from going up to see my daughter. So she contacted me to sort out an arrangement, to which she now goes to her nans every Sunday. This has been happening for months.
He has recently changed jobs and told me he can only have our daughter 3 Saturdays a month as he needs time to himself.
Then he’s messaged to say he’s had enuf of my daughter going to his mums and he’s demanding I stop it and let him take her instead.
Bare in mind that when he doesn’t get his own way he’s very verbally abusive and manipulative. He lets her down week after week making rubbish excuses as to why he can’t have her.
He’s now saying he’s taking me to mediation/court.
I don’t really know what I want from this, just some advice really.
Thanks in advance
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