Can I have a private post please?
Does anybody else feel utterly abandoned by their partner since they found out they were expecting?
I was diagnosed with depression and anxiety early into the pregnancy, and when I try to talk to him about how I feel he just shrugs it off because he “doesn’t know how to help” he constantly tells me that my mood is dragging him down, he likes to remind me that he has to financially provide as I’ve been singed off on the sick, his phone is glued to his hand 24/7 yet if I text or try to call they go unanswered and ignored. I don’t feel loved or appreciated by him at all, he claims he loves me and wants us to stay together but he’s doing nothing to prove it, he only seems to care when he thinks I’m going to leave, I truly feel he was much happier before I came into his life and I honestly feel as though I’m only with him because we are having a baby.
Our little girl wasn’t planned, I was told I couldn’t get pregnant and I was booked in for a hysterectomy so this was a huge shock to the pair of us, but we are very happy and over the moon we have a miracle baby on the way!
Except I feel so alone, I’m not and never will be a top priority in his life,
I know I’m probably not the best choice but I certainly don’t want to always be his last choice.
I’m not perfect by any means, I’m trying to be a better partner and then maybe he wouldn’t be so crappy with me 😞
I’ve seen messages on his phone from other women, they are seemingly innocent but they have love heart and winky faces ( he NEVER uses them with me ) my confidence and self esteem are absolutely in tatters and I’m trying my absolute best to keep myself together for the sake of our baby, but I feel as though I’m losing control and I don’t know where to turn or who to speak to 😞 any help or advice would go a mile!