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My ex is taking me to a mediation. What is this? And what will they do? I’m so worried. It’s all because I won’t let my 2 year old sleep over. He has him every other weekend Saturday and Sunday 10am-4pm just not the Saturday night. My reasons include…
* Don’t know the address of where he is staying because he won’t give it to me.
* When he was staying he was getting upset and clingy when he was going and coming home. He would be angry, crying and grumpy when coming home.
* I’d struggle to get him to bed, he’d normally go at 7pm, after staying I wouldn’t be able to calm him down and get him to bed till 9pm/10pm and he wouldn’t sleep in his own bed all night he’d be unsettled and come in with me. Since not staying he’s been going to bed 7pm in his own bed/room and sleeping all night until 7am.
* Every time he picks him up he’s screaming crying and clinging to me as if he doesn’t want to go.
I found online that under 4 year olds shouldn’t stay over night and that it can reduce brain development and cause attachment issues which I don’t want as he starts nursery soon so want him to be happy and confident.
What are my rights? What will the mediation people do? Xx
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