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Can someone help me or give me advice please? Please no nasty comments I already feel crap as it is..
Basically my partner gets up for work about 5.30 and drives an hour and a half to work and the same back. Gets home about half 6. So he’s always tired. I get no help with the house or caring for our nearly 6 month old daughter. I told him numerous times I don’t expect much from him in the week as he works and is tired but would like help on the weekends (is this reasonable?) To get nothing. I do everything for him and our daughter.. He basically doesn’t lift a finger. We have a cat, that gets shit marks all over the floor where the litter tray is, poos around the house and wees near the litter tray and I’m fed up of cleaning after it. He changed the tray about 3/4 times within about 3 months and fed it twice. I asked him the other day if he would change it after work to be told i do “fuck all, all day” when he came home to his tea ready for him when he walked in the door and various other jobs done. But then he tells me I just don’t do enough while he’s at work.. He says he’s come back to it being a shit hole.. when it’s not. The pots have been done, worktop cleaned, living room tidy. He says there’s shit everywhere.. I asked where and he said letters and random stuff. The letters are in a letter/key thing hung on the wall and isn’t that many. Been made to feel shit tbh. Like every thing I do for him isn’t appreciated 😕 he doesn’t do anything. And makes me feel like I’m the bad person for wanting some help.. anyone else experienced This?
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