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Can you do a post for me please? I need some advice for clearer head as I really don’t know what to do as I just wanna stop all this. Ladies and men. Please answer as honest as you can. If you have a partner who you love dearly (especially if they are your first and know them since babies basically grew up together) – you’ve had such a bad child hood and then your with the childhood sweetheart and both of you grew up to have kids and married and it’s like a fairy tail expect it’s not. Your partner is so good to you at times and a good parent (not the best but good enough) and doesn’t do like most partner does (socialise a lot, cheat etc), who’s with you 24/7 (apart from work obviously) play computer games with you, get in bath with you every week, watch tv together and just have a warm enjoyable company most of the time. Helps out around the house (rarely helps clean the house but does the dishes often) – doesn’t help with the kids at all like changing nappies, bath them, put them to bed or even get up in the mornings with them and always has a lie in while your up with the kids. BUT your ok with that, you find that normal and still happy. You can cope with that just fine. The only problem is other people and things that have been happening. Friends who are not really a mate and likes to cause trouble at all times and when you moan so much about it, your partner decides to stop being their mates but resents you, saying it’s your fault and that you stopped them having friends when it’s not the case. Things comes up with porn (to which you are against with), escorts sites, dating websites, text services from like hot babes or whatever you call it, been happening for so many years non stop and your partner deny most of them saying they never did it and someone must have done it hacked into it or something to try split us up etc. At first you think oh well it’s just a text/porn just ignore it, but it keeps happening on and on year after year you start to get fed up and start to control the devices, like on iPhone you put restricted passcode on safari so no private browser can be use so that way it doesn’t happen again but your partner moans that they have no private life and makes out that your so controlling and need help. After all these things and people what would you EXACTLY do? When you think it’ll never ends. Would you accept it or would you go separate ways? Would you do what i do? If your partner have been on escort sites for 2 years behind your back, money going missing and dating website – to admitting ONE of them, would you trust them after that or would you track their moves on iPhone to see where they are? If people are out there to try split you up would you let your partner carry on be friends with them or would you say it’s me or them? Help me out here please. I know it doesn’t explain everything as I’ve already typed out too much and there is a lot more to the story so I apologies if you don’t really understand but please answer as you can. Thanks I just want this to stop it is making me so ill and I’m starting to believe it’s all my fault. Xx
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