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Hey, could I have a post please?
I have a 6 year old little boy. Long story short, I became pregnant when I was 14, my boyfriend at the time was 17. So we were both very young. His dad left me & moved 400miles away to Scotland when I found out I was pregnant. He would send me awful abusive messages but again, we were young & he was immature. Just before my little boy was born he moved back to England. He saw him once at 6 weeks old & once at 9 months old. All his own choice. He messaged me back in 2014 to ask how he was, I sent some pictures back & that was it. My little boy asks about him more as he’s gotten older & he knows he’s different to other children because he doesn’t see his dad & has no memories of him & doesn’t know what he looks like. Last week, totally out of the blue, my mum suggested making contact with his dad to see if he would be interested in speaking to my son. Initially I didn’t think it was a good idea. I have no idea what this man is like now, where he lives, if he works or not, his personality etc. But now I don’t know. Should I make contact & see if maybe he wasn’t to speak on the phone to my son? I just don’t want my son to get hurt. I really don’t know what’s for the best. Opinions/thoughts or experiences would be much appreciated!
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