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Hi private post please if possible
I’m 14 weeks pregnant with my 1st baby. I’m 20, rent my own house and I’d say pretty mature for my age. Partner is almost 31 and has full time job, we are planning to move in together and he is excited about baby. We have told his family and they’re happy for us, but I haven’t told my own. I feel sad because I have no friends to support me as I have bad anxiety and lost all my friends..and I have a very small family and only my mum and gran really bother to see me occasionally. Problem is I’m terrified of telling my mum, all my teenage years she would lecture me about not having kids young (she had me at 19) and would check up on me constantly, and try and stick her nose in me and my partners sex life lol. She also would always say it would be a disaster if I had kids because I have problems like anxiety, even though I can be fully independent and im very caring, i’ve also worked with kids and in healthcare..but she basically makes out i’m stupid and have no skills. So I don’t want to tell her, because I know the verbal abuse i’ll get about this and how embarrassed she will be of me when people she knows find out. But I obviously have to at some point as I’ll start showing, and she works near where I live/my neighbours all work with her or have kids that attend where she works! I cannot avoid her. What would be the best way to tell her? I’m interested to know how young mums told their mothers. And how does anyone who has no female support get through their pregnancies? I feel like my partner hasn’t a clue what I’m going through and doesn’t really get half of what i’m saying 🙄
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