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my partner is asian , im your normal white catholic girl not that religion makes any difference! Ive never met his family and when I found out I was pregnant he didn’t want to tell them through fear of what it would do to his mum. While I was pregnant , his ex got in contact and caused a whole heap of trouble which is now going through court. I had a social worker at my door last week to tell me under no circumstances should his ex to be near our baby ( not that she ever would be ) and today I was told by my health visitor that obviously she’s threatened to harm our child etc if social work have been to tell me to stay clear. He’s not accepting this as he believes she wouldn’t do that . our baby is 5 months old , I still haven’t met his mum as he ” likes to keep everything separate ” but I know it’s not that , they won’t accept me for not being the same as them. It hurts me a lot and his answer every time is why does that upset you? I always say what happens next with us if your family don’t like me and he always hits out with – im my own person I do what I want but it’s clearly not the case He feels I’m putting him in a position , but I don’t feel I am. I don’t feel comfortable with my baby going to a place with people I don’t know but he thinks I’m holding the baby back .. but after everything with his ex im right to be a bit panicked by this! somebody tell me I’m not being paranoid?? and what to say to make him understand me , before I walk away for good. Feel like I’m banging my head against a wall! I’ve said time and time again hes leading a double life but again he’s telling me I’m making a problem when there isn’t one! any help would be great thanks x
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my partner is asian , im your normal white catholic girl not that religion makes…
